Needing Beading
When I was waiting to adopt my son a few years ago,
my mom and aunt were in the middle of a beading
frenzy as they had discovered the simple joy of
going to a beading place and running their hands
through the riches of little glass, gold, porcelain,
silver, and stone nuggets. Beading was all the rage
then and beginning to show up in the mainstream
craft and hobby stores. They intertwined big silver
beads with ruby-like stones and crosses–a la
Madonna. Tiger eye and black, crystal pink with
layers of gold filler to make a luxurious, stretchy
band, theme bracelets with every kind of charm you
can imagine. They were hooked–literally–churning
out bracelet after bracelet and just giving them
away to friends and giggly granddaughters.
Something about the variety of beads and choices for
designs is exhilarating and captivates the beading
beginner into thinking that many things are
possible.
My own beading experience was inspired by this
whoosh of activity and the energy and excitement I
had found in new friends and our impending trip to
China for the newest member of our family. Unlike
the more structured looks I was seeing in books,
stores, and on the Web, I just bought tubes of every
bead I liked and mixed them all together in a set of
one-of-a-kind friendship bracelets for my fellow
parents-to-be. They all ended up with a similar
look, but as a beginner, I made a common mistake of
using the wrong kind of stretchy string and when my
own bracelet started to fray after a few weeks I
knew they wouldn’t last long.
But that wasn’t the important thing. The energy in
those first bracelets passed quickly to my friend
Michele and then to my niece Amanda, who as novices
like me took beading to a new level and on very
different paths. Both are artistic and destined to
create for the rest of their lives, and both got the
beading bug when they were expectant parents. Maybe
they had been looking at beads before, but I do know
that once they had those first beads in hand, they
took off with the same wild enthusiasm I had seen
and experienced myself. It’s as if the beads are
made with just a little bit of catnip to drive us
crazy and want more. We just can’t stop! And the
beads just get prettier.
After the adoption calm set in, it was time to put
some of this beading energy to good use, and the
struggling China Orphan Relief Fund made a great
cause. Somewhere in conversations about lampwork
Buddhas, pandas, jade, and character beads,
Bracelets for China Charities began. We had a
ready-made venue at an annual Lunar New Year
celebration, heavily attended by adoptive parents.
Though we did our fair share of runs to the local
craft stores and swooped in for the bulk beads if
any were going out of business, Michele and I both
found our favorite beads from specialty bead
dealers. On a bead mission in Florida, she found
delightful little clear beads with single Chinese
characters in them, and knowing the adoptive parents
would go nuts over them, scooped them up. She
became the queen of crackle and jade beads and soon
passed the beading bug on to her sister-in-law, now
a loyal follower in our need to bead.
I found my best beads in an antique house run by a
crazy lady named Mary in my hometown. Every visit
to that place is a cultural experience – not only do
you walk in to beads on the tables, hanging from the
walls, on the floor, in cabinets, and in every kind
of container you can imagine, Mary is there to
narrate your visit with her hoarse, well-worn voice
and stories as you spend what seems like hours
wandering through beads, finding treasures for the
treasures you will make with them.
The first year we offered bracelets for sale, we
made the Orphan Relief Fund $300 richer. Over four
years we’ve doubled that number, adding a few new
colors and styles each year, but the one thing we’ve
noticed is that same wild twinkle in the eyes of
customers who want to run their hands through the
bracelets, try on as many as possible, admire,
giggle, and marvel at the beads. They know they are
supporting a charity, but they also know they are
supporting their own, inner charity by giving in to
the beauty of the colors and the crackles.
If you’ve never beaded before, now is the time to
start. Here are some of our favorite beading links,
and we couldn’t leave you without the chance to
purchase one of our signature bracelets that
started it all. Oh, and we're also offering
some adorable angel earrings that are sure to
make you feel safer just because they are dangling
with you.
Happy beading!
Suzanne Mabee
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